{"id":6183,"date":"2022-07-11T15:18:28","date_gmt":"2022-07-11T15:18:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zeru.com\/blog\/?p=6183"},"modified":"2022-07-11T15:18:28","modified_gmt":"2022-07-11T15:18:28","slug":"dming-a-girl-on-instagram-how-to-keep-your-message-normal-and-avoid-sounding-creepy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zeru.com\/blog\/dming-a-girl-on-instagram-how-to-keep-your-message-normal-and-avoid-sounding-creepy","title":{"rendered":"DMing a Girl on Instagram &#8211; How to Keep Your Message Normal and Avoid Sounding Creepy"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_43 counter-flat ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69e72f7bf2547\" class=\"cssicon\"><span style=\"display: flex;align-items: center;width: 35px;height: 30px;justify-content: center;direction:ltr;\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/label><label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69e72f7bf2547\"  class=\"cssiconcheckbox\">1<\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69e72f7bf2547\" ><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/zeru.com\/blog\/dming-a-girl-on-instagram-how-to-keep-your-message-normal-and-avoid-sounding-creepy\/#DMing_a_Girl_on_Instagram_-_How_to_Keep_Your_Message_Normal_and_Avoid_Sounding_Creepy\" title=\"DMing a Girl on Instagram &#8211; How to Keep Your Message Normal and Avoid Sounding Creepy\">DMing a Girl on Instagram &#8211; How to Keep Your Message Normal and Avoid Sounding Creepy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/zeru.com\/blog\/dming-a-girl-on-instagram-how-to-keep-your-message-normal-and-avoid-sounding-creepy\/#DMing_a_girl_on_instagram_can_be_scary\" title=\"DMing a girl on instagram can be scary\">DMing a girl on instagram can be scary<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/zeru.com\/blog\/dming-a-girl-on-instagram-how-to-keep-your-message-normal-and-avoid-sounding-creepy\/#Keep_it_normal\" title=\"Keep it normal\">Keep it normal<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/zeru.com\/blog\/dming-a-girl-on-instagram-how-to-keep-your-message-normal-and-avoid-sounding-creepy\/#Dont_say_anything_creepy\" title=\"Don&#8217;t say anything creepy\">Don&#8217;t say anything creepy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/zeru.com\/blog\/dming-a-girl-on-instagram-how-to-keep-your-message-normal-and-avoid-sounding-creepy\/#DMing_a_girl_in_person_is_a_great_way_to_show_confidence\" title=\"DMing a girl in person is a great way to show confidence\">DMing a girl in person is a great way to show confidence<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"DMing_a_Girl_on_Instagram_-_How_to_Keep_Your_Message_Normal_and_Avoid_Sounding_Creepy\"><\/span>DMing a Girl on Instagram &#8211; How to Keep Your Message Normal and Avoid Sounding Creepy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<p> <img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"how to dm a girl on instagram\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/IsKnWju.jpg\"> <\/p>\n<p>DMing a girl on Instagram can be scary, so here are some tips to keep your message normal and avoid sounding creepy. It&#8217;s better to approach a girl in person if you want to DM her on Instagram. However, DMing a girl on Instagram on the app may seem creepy if you say something that is unsettling or creepy. However, it is a great way to show her that you&#8217;re confident enough to approach her and start a conversation.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"DMing_a_girl_on_instagram_can_be_scary\"><\/span>DMing a girl on instagram can be scary<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>DMing a girl on Instagram can be scary because most girls don&#8217;t like being contacted via DM, so it can be tempting to make up some weird character. The problem with pretending to be someone else is that the girl will realize this as soon as she sees you in person. To avoid scaring her, show your true personality and self-confidence instead. Try to be yourself and don&#8217;t let fear or the fear of rejection keep you from being a successful DMer.<\/p>\n<p>DMing a girl on Instagram can be tricky, but you don&#8217;t have to be creepy to be successful. Follow these tips to make it a positive experience for both you and the girl. While it can be intimidating, Instagram has made it easier for guys to get into a girl&#8217;s DMs without the fear of being creepy. Try to be yourself and comment on her posts to start a conversation.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Keep_it_normal\"><\/span>Keep it normal<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you want to impress a girl, make sure you keep your DMs as casual as possible. Don&#8217;t send her a DM telling her how hot her asses are or how amazing your wood baked pizza looks. Girls don&#8217;t want to feel like a stalker when all they see is a guy&#8217;s bare torso. Girls prefer to get messages from their friends, not guys who act like 13-year-old boys behind the screens.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s important to stay as anonymous as possible, even if you know the girl intimately. Even if you have seen her profile, pretend to be totally new to her and don&#8217;t tell her about your relationship. This will only make her feel insecure. She&#8217;ll probably be more surprised than anything, so don&#8217;t overdo it. Instead, ask her questions and be open-minded.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Dont_say_anything_creepy\"><\/span>Don&#8217;t say anything creepy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Don&#8217;t DM a girl on Instagram with a generic message if you want her to follow you back. You don&#8217;t want to come across as stalking. Instead, try liking her posts and stories. This way, she will have a reason to respond to you. Doing this will increase your chances of making a good first impression and will increase your likelihood of being able to make a good impression.<\/p>\n<p>You may already know her well, but that doesn&#8217;t mean you should come off as stalkerish. Make sure you&#8217;re flirty, but don&#8217;t sound creepy. Girls don&#8217;t want guys who are creepy and don&#8217;t know how to approach them. Instead, try to sound approachable and honest. Don&#8217;t DM her with a message that makes her feel awkward or insecure.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"DMing_a_girl_in_person_is_a_great_way_to_show_confidence\"><\/span>DMing a girl in person is a great way to show confidence<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>DMing a girl in person on Instagram is a great way to show confidence because you can be yourself, even if you&#8217;re just chatting with her online. Just make sure that you sound confident. 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